So let's state the obvious: Christianity and Judaism are mostly bullshit. The Bible is bullshit. I've read Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy, and Matthew. As far as I am able to tell at this point, the Bible is nonsense. If the parts that I haven't read yet prove me wrong, I'll admit my fault and apologize. But I don't believe in what it says.

I don't believe, for example, that people who contract a venereal disease should deal with the problem by bringing to doves to the priest so he can sacrifice them. I don't spend a lot of time, for example, deliberating about whether or not dwarfs or people with crushed testicles should be allowed near the alter. I don't think, for example, that it's acceptable to sell my brother into slavery, as long as I follow certain guidelines. This is the content of the Bible. NON. SENSE.

There are some good ideas in Christianity and Judaism, but you certainly don't have to be a Christian or a Jew to learn them. I understand that there are cultural aspects of these religions, and I respect that. It's fine with me, because most of those people have never read the Bible, so they have no clue what they're worshipping. Behavioral control is the purpose of religion in almost every case. It's an impediment to spirituality.

This woman is an idiot. And she will never understand how or why she's an idiot, but she's an idiot.

A couple of things:

First, do not engage cyber bullies or their clique of weak minded followers. All of us tend to respond to personal attacks from an emotionally charged perspective, which can wreck our own credibility, which is the ultimate goal of the serial bully.

Second, always report any personal attacks, regardless of the source. However, do not tell the serial bull or their followers that you've done so. I understand it will be pretty obvious who reported whom, especially given the blatant nature of the bullying going on, but why confirm it?

The site itself is owned by Interactive One, LLC (email MemberAdvocate@InteractiveOne.com), who is in turn owned by Radio One, Inc (email info@radio-one.com), a major media corporation. If you've already tried the abuse reporting links on the site (there is one on every forum post, it would seem), and nothing is being done about it, send a politely worded email to those email addresses.

Be sure to include the two links I could not allow to be posted. I'm fairly certain a major corporation would strongly object to a cyber attack from one of their own holdings, which should speed up any response or action that would result from your complaint.

I did have the opportunity to check the site out. It does appear that cyber bullying is fairly common on that site, mainly a small group of juvenile "men" engaged in bullying against any woman who questions, well, anything that appears to apply to them.

For the benefit of those who are unable to see the examples you told me about...

Both the links were to forum threads on the site, in which Nachalle and other women were repeatedly subjected to misogynistic personal attacks. The attacks were completely unprovoked, and totally unrelated to anything the women may have said on other parts of the site. The attacks came exclusively from "men."

I had, at first, thought that perhaps the site owners and administrators were simply inept at running a commercial "dating" site, since permitting such an unsafe online environment for women is not conducive to sound business practices for that type of commercial enterprise.

But, after a bit of research, I have to conclude the site intentionally permits such behaviors. In this particular case, it would appear any self-confident, educated, independent woman who expresses an opinion or viewpoint that runs counter to a clique of weak-minded immature men. The behaviors exhibited by these "men" runs totally contrary to the self-descriptions they provide of themselves, which definitely fits the pattern of a cyber bully. There appears to be a concerted attempt, particularly based on some of the "petitions" I saw, to get rid of any woman on the site that exhibits any sign of self-worth, or an IQ above room temperature.

One can speculate, probably accurately, as to the motivations of such "men."

This is also another forum where the moderator harasses me in hiding.

"gvsl1m" is another screen name who constantly harasses me.

Peace.

Nachalle

The following cyber bullies on this site are:

Smack U Silly
Anubis noir
Byakuugan_Mod
SenorcafeDa2nd
KingJaffeJo
DroppinJewlz
Ncboi2004
Panther711
Loveon or loveon78
Mr dontplay2
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They create forums about me and insulting ones as well the Moderator himself which is Byakuugan_Mod participates as well....

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Please excuse me using curse words as well I was only defending myself.

Thanking you in advance for your cooperation.

Peace.

Nachalle

(I know they're spelling it wrong on purpose.)